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Has any individual ever told you s/he necessitated “some space?”
All too ofttimes men and women are threatened by their collaborators calling for or wanting “space”…an prospect to take delight in solitude.
They in some manner feel that if their collaborators in truth loved them they wouldn’t want to be detached from them. Or they take it personally and project that they have done or said something that has offended their collaborator and s/he now wants to get away.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
If you get lonely or feel rejected when your Honey wants to take galore personal time, thoroughly question your fears and your attitudes.
· Have you built walls of defense rather of bridges in the hope of protecting your fear that there might be something faulty with you?
· Are you afraid of being close with others, getting hurt, failing, or perchance experiencing the pain of losing an individual you love?
· Are you filling your life by being busy, seeking out and spending time with people you may not in particular like?
· Are you filling up the spaces of your life with a large total of noise from the radio, TV, DVD’s or surfing the net endlessly?
If you feel the pain of loneliness or the fear of your collaborator necessitating to develop a time for solitude, please consider reading this terrific book, There Must Be More Than This: Finding More Life, Love, and Meaning by Overcoming Soft Addictions written by Judith Wright.
While this book doesn’t address the notions of solitude, aloneness or loneliness in so a great deal of words, Ms. Wright explores the whole idea of soft addictions, which I refer to as “being busy and making noise.” These only serve to distract us from listening to our inner knowing and deepening our inner awareness.
Creating chances for solitude and getting comfortable in your own company are accomplishments you may learn and which will be hugely beneficial all around your life.
Get to work. You’re worth it!
Remember, only YOU may make it happen!
Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 1999-2005
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Album DescriptionCalifornia’s Left Alone are building a reputation as one of the most difficult working indie bands in the underground scene. Singing in both English and Spanish, they’ve managed to win over fans in the US, Mexico, and Canada, sharing stages with Voodoo Glow Skulls, Union 13, HorrorPops, The Nerve Agents, US Bombs, and F-Minus, to name a few. This, their second Hellcat release, is a 16-song sonic blast of lonely roads, drunken adventures, and lost love, incorporating elements of ska, cowpunk, and old school punk. For fans of Rancid, The Clash, NOFX, and Voodoo Glow Skulls.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful.
 Solid songwriting and attentiongetting hooks
By marcos lara
Elvis Cortez proves once again that he is one of this generation’s finer singer/songwriters. While wearing his influences on his sleeve, he shows that the best way do be dissimilar is to be better. So yes, Left Alone will remind you of Social Distortion and Rancid, they will show that they may improve on the old formula as well. Although they are an all Latino band, they don’t try to market themselves on their ethnicity or makethemselves into cultural charicairtures either (like some celt-punk bands do). They’re not sell-outs either. They may not address specific culturals issues in their songs like P-K-Dores or Los Crudos, but their sound unquestionably comes from a Chicano heart. What may sound like a ska influence to a Caucasian fan reminds me of old cumbias my mom made me listen to. The CD only has one song in Spanish (La Pregunta) and it is a golden oldie from their underground days. This does lead one to wonder how Patricia Day got co-writing credit when it was recorded and freed years ago on their own label before they even came into the Hellcat family. Noe sounds better than ever with the higher production quality and Ramrod keeps all of the songs moving. This is highly commended for any person who likes passionate, spirited, and fun music.
0 of 0 humans found the following review helpful.
 Left Alone
By Jezi Starr
Song #2 features my numero uno, Tim Armstrong (of Rancid). This album has a lot of punk, a lil ska and a bit of rockabilly. This is a great CD. They’re even better live.
1 of 3 humans found the following review helpful.
 Quality control has left the building
By Leetsauce
This is the introductory and only mediocre hellcat release I’ve purchased, and I own all of the record label’s albums. The music just seems unexploited and tired. The vocals are lackluster, and the lyrics are sub par. Even the song Tim Amrstrong guest stars on is short and weak. His lines are short and he hardly adds to the song. Just go to youtube and watch the video for “I hate emo” and you’ll not want to buy this album. Not because hating emo is lame, but because it’s just a poor unexploited song by amatuers. C’mon Hellcat, sign some talent so I don’t lose faith.
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